looking into 2019 like
Yes, I totally used this photo at the beginning of the year, too, but I love it. It represents looking forward, of course, at the year to come, but also a great reflection of what happened within a year that just passed.
There is nothing special about New Years to me, aside from the fact that I have, at one time in my life, been a big List Person. As the kids grow up and our days get fuller, them going this way and that, it becomes imperative that I write down some sort of tangible activities we can do together (or I can do on my own!), and experiences I want to be intentional about getting to. Science says writing things down means they are more likely to happen. Even if I only get to half my list-half is better than zero any day!
So, here's my 2018 list, and here's what actually happened:
I tried to make an honest effort to be in more photos as opposed to being the one always taking them. I made Stefan do more selfies with me on date nights, and made him take some photos of the kids and I. By the end of the year he was doing it without me knowing it! I always get some with him in them, so...success!
I wanted to visit the Sunshine coast a bit more, and with a friend's invitation to join them and a few other families for camping, my wish was granted. We visited Sechelt and camped at a great spot, hiked around a bit, toured the cute little town, ate delicious farmer's market food, and had great campfire talks. Success!
I have wanted to visit (and eat my way through) the Asian Night market ever since we moved here. I found a friend who also had never been and wanted to and...ta-da! Done! I was surprised it was more than just food. I found some really fun stocking stuffers for the kids here, too. Tip: go REALLY hungry and bring more cash (about $20 more) than you'd expect.
I bought a better swimsuit: 3, in fact. Two bikinis for my girls' trips (one I like more than the other, surprise surprise) and then a third black one-piece that was the last one on the rack, my size exactly, and dirt cheap. Love those little gifts!
The kids and I got together with Ani's Science Games girls and we visited the Brittania Mine. Highly recommend, but it'd definitely be better with a group rather than touring it on your own as the activities they did with us all day were worth the cost. Bonus: it REALLY helped the girls in the Science Games this year as a lot of it was about geology. They won first place!
I went to the Shop Sweet Christmas Market, which I'd heard was the best. Sigh. Nothing beats Lincoln markets, people. Nothing. It was cute. It was fine. I won a giveaway which I totally scored at, but still, the market-sized hole in my heart has me longing for Love the Locals , etc.
I took the kids to Ashfall Fossil Beds, Laura Ingalls Wilder homestead in De Smet, SD, and played at the Oregon Coast. Check, check, check. All wonderful. Except the kid whining in Oregon. That was legendary. Thank goodness the Rainier cherries were in season to cheer me up. (not joking)
I saw wild horses on our girls' trip to Pheonix, I watched a Wrinkle in Time and cried even though it didn't do the book justice (it can still be beautiful on its own), and I went skiing with the family. So much so that we geared up and got mountain passes! One of our favorite things from 2018.
*****
What didn't happen? Well I totally dropped the ball on the Harry Potter party. I was HPed OUT. I just let the idea fade into the last chatper at Hogwarts.
I did not even remotely think about doing a once-a-month cleanup of google drive. It's laughable. I keep it pretty tidy, but it could be better. I honestly don't even want to add this to this year's. Bah-humbug.
I didn't make a school (2017-2018) Instagram booklet, but I KNOW that if I made the effort, I'd be glad I did. Someone motivate me? And give me 4 extra hours?
I didn't get to snow-shoeing but I hope to this season!
I didn't make a Nebraska trip booklet, either. (See IG, above) I suck at doing these. My friends and family are really good at them. I just need to block a portion of time out for making them a reality that I can tangibly hold for years to come, but in the meantime I can't be bothered. Once again, I need some solid motivation for this.
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